Positive developments? #2

[MichelleLT]

That's definitely something to add to the list of positives!

[jon2911]

Had a great week, work was good and I got to record in the studio all day Friday! Got a text during church this morning ''can we do taxes Thurs / Fri this week, here?''

I called her later and we set up the details. It was a nice talk. So taxes are the excuse, but I'm still super excited. Just a week ago she didn't want me to visit at all. Need help setting some goals for the trip and managing expectations.

[jon2911]

Another interesting sitch, a guy messaged me on FB, saying he watched a video from my school and I was in it, thought about me, asked how things are going. This is a guy who liked and tried to date W in college, but let's just say I won Cool guy, but this is one of a few specific people from college that W forbid me to contact, saying they were her friends first and I only knew them through her. That pisses me off, but I don't want to rock the boat unnecessarily. I told him things were good and thanked him for writing, but that I couldn't give more details right now. Thoughts?

[MichelleLT]

Glad you two are getting together again! A good opportunity to show her what she's missing out on.

Interesting about this guy contacting you.

Also interesting about what you posted on my thread - the old youth pastor saying how angry he was at you until he heard your side of the story of the situation with your W. I am glad he was open to hearing you out.

[jon2911]

W called at 5:00 AM, she was dizzy and disoriented and sounded scared. I got the VM at 7:30 and called her back. She asked if I noticed a pattern when this would happen while we were together. She mentioned how much I helped her back then. Nice to hear that, most of what I've heard the last two years has been ''I never needed much help I just wanted you to feel better'' BS. Maybe she's thinking? I'll find out this week.

Our 4-year anniversary is Wednesday and I'll see her on Thursday. Thought about buying her tickets to our favorite band. Should I even mention it?

[jon2911]

Very interesting developments here. W told me she had a second test come back abnormal for cervical cancer, so today they're doing a biopsy. Because, you know, what she needs is more medical problems. She said it's supposed to be really painful so she won't be in a good mood when I come in. Great.

I took a risk and asked if I could take her to the appointment. She declined, but said it was a nice offer. No big deal, I'm in Austin today moving my little brother into college. Ten years to the day after I did. Crazy.

Text from W late last night ''ceviche and margaritas at my favorite place?'' Sounds good to me. We discovered 'ceviche on our honeymoon four years ago. Maybe I won't say it to her, but Happy Anniversary to me!

[MichelleLT]

Hmmm, just remember if you buy the tickets, no expectations. Meaning you can't be disappointed if she doesn't ask you to go with her!

I think the anniversary is on her mind too lol. Nice texts and convos from her!

Happy Anniversary to you too.

*fingers crossed* I hope your W's tests come back okay! That has to be so stressful and scary for her.

[jon2911]

Hmmm, just remember if you buy the tickets, no expectations. Meaning you can't be disappointed if she doesn't ask you to go with her!

I think I'll wait to see if she wants to come, then buy the tickets. No pressure that way.

[K4D]

Hey John,

Let me know if you are wanting to be part of our prayer group in Dallas once FaithfulH finishes his move here.

Kevin

[jon2911]

Hey Kevin, I'm in! Almost to Houston, will hop over to your thread after the weekend.