Hi Oz, yes I can totally identify with your feelings of being able to vent here, of reaching out to people who can really empathise with your pain. I was over the worst part of my sitch when I found this forum. It really brought out the repressed things that I just needed to get out.
This constant changing of personalities within your H is going to be hard, and I just hope taht it won't last too long for you. But don't expect it to be over any time soon.
And I htink the earrings issue might grow into a nagging thorn and more over time.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.