As hard as it might be, try to focus on winning the war within right now. And whatever you do, try to minimise the potential for your kids to be collateral damage.
You are still in my thoughts.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.