Guilt, loss of being in control, loss of cake-eating, wounded pride and arrogance. All of these are the common reasons a WAS behaves the way your H has.

I can't be sorry for someone so grossly selfish and reckless.

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he'd have to move away to his Dad's in IN or to a friend's in NC

Oh, puh-lease! We don't need him in NC! We already have one too many such lowly, self-serving waywards in this state -- namely xW's OM. Just one is one too many. smirk


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.