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I have to talk to my wife about our old apartment. The landlord called me. This means I have to call her.


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Could you have the landlord call her instead??


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I did it. Fast easy and cheerful, no "I Love you" Just friendly passing of information.


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Good, very good.

Stacy likes you handled this.

Keep it up.


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but her voice sounded so sweet and pained.


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Resist!!

She will start the oh-so-typical game-playing as soon as you back off. DO NOT GET SUCKED IN!!!

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STOP, STOP!!

Yes, she's in pain, and yes, you're in pain.

Give her some space, give you some space. I know this sucks, but would you just do it.

Time and space can heal.

At this point, what do you have to lose by trying something new. What you were doing wasn't working -- 180.


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Exactly!

And good that she is pained. She needs to stew in that for a good while. She's been gone a year and banging some scumbag!

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re-reading some of DR.


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Re-reading DR -- Stacy likes this.

Hang in there!!


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