Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

hi thinker, I would ask her what you would differently do if you WERENT being effeminate?

Good turn around on the question I actually asked...( while thinking WTF?...) "Can you give me some examples of when I was acting effeminate?" - a better phrasing.

Do you think that theres anything to what shes saying? Have you ever had your hormone levels checked?

I don't actually think it is anything real or physical, but is a clear perception on her part in response to the fact that I have historically avoided conflict and uncomfortable situations that I left her in the drivers seat of the R (and other aspects of our joint lives in general) for a long time.

I also think part of it is her reaction to my implementation of some of the standard DB recommendations: dress better, wear cologne, get out and try new things (shooting clubs were not in the list, but is actually planned. I did spend an evening watching UFC with her brothers ) , meet new people, etc. She keeps coming back to "All these new changes are just weird and are creeping me out"

She has also gotten nervous about the fact that I am seeing an IC, but doesn't really understand about what. (About my F--king Marriage!!)

I guess the good part is that she's noticed, and I'm keeping her on her toes. The bad part is...