Just remember, if she backs out on this, you might have to take some kiddos camping!

I had those same kinds of convos with H. How disappointing that this whole time, you both felt the same. We had several things that we had both wanted to do, just never got up the nerve to bring it up. One of them was we had both decided that we wanted to have kids, but that didnt come out into the open until after his A started. I think that it may be one of the big factors in him wanting out. frown

I saw that you said that she does want to be married, does that mean to you?

Like I said before. Keep up your changes long enough and they will become part of who you are. And eventually she will have no choice but to see that you have changed!


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...