Oh, Gucci, 25, Coach...if H tries to connect me with people who can help with my business, how do I deal with that? I mean I would prefer to be completely separate but a) he knows sooo many people and b) I'm destitute and can't really justify turning away opportunities...
The communication when kids are involved is so complicated. I mean, I can stick to business and be "friendly" for their benefit, right?
I exhibit no interest in his life or what he is doing. I skip any emails or phone calls that are personal...
But, I am still in our house with most of his stuff here (annoying but actually beneficial to have assets here)...so there are lots of potential boundary issues. I make sure I am not here if he comes by and I don't extend myself for the most part.