This is so juvenile but I haven't taken him off my page because I don't want to be provocative right now and he would actually take offense at that...I am too reliant on him for money and it is better if he thinks everything is ok.
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Poor me??? I guess you aren't serious about turning this around or you aren't convinced my advice works. I recommend that you take him of ASAP.Sooner the better. Looks like the cake is missing another ingredient. Turning this around or turning yourself around will take a lot more "who cares what you think" attitude. You aren't there. Sure wish you were.
Stick with me here Gucc, please. My #1 priority right now HAS to be my kids' well being. If and when I take H off, he will be humiliated because all of our mutual friends (other than my good friends) are getting his version of how it is all good with me. Now, I would love to make my point but as I am still completely reliant on him financially, I am reluctant to be provocative. I realize that this sounds silly but his ego can't take it. He'll retaliate. This week I will hopefully find out if I have money for a L.
Today I made what felt like a Kevin style mistake...I agreed to have lunch with H and the kids because he said they wanted to. I couldn't believe I was that easy!!! But, it went well, meaning my kids transitioned soooo much better and are so much more at ease. Normally S6 has a 3 hour tantrum when I get him from H. Today just went so smoothly. I looked good, felt good. Kept it light and the kids seemed to benefit from the experience.
I honestly do not have reconciling as my goal here. If the Gucc can work that miracle, ha, I'll hook you up with some producers and you can have your own reality show!!
I'm so much closer than you think I am...but keep on me. I can take it!
