Right now I don't believe she would go to Retrovaille. I just looked it up and there is one upcoming a couple of hours away in September. I went by the house today and saw that she grilled out steaks for two last night and I am 99% sure it was the OM. I just can't wrap my mind around this and why? What is the attraction? I also found a love poem written by him to her. Its unbelievable right now. I was doing pretty good until today, I am so down right now!
STOP, STOP, STOP obsessing about your wife. It is NOT constructive, and it will get you nowhere.
I was serious when I told you to read Kevin's thread, and do the opposite. This is typical Kevin, mind-reading, projecting, etc.
Focus on YOU and the kids.
Detach, detach, detach.
There's a good link reagarding loving detachment -- I'll post it here if I can find it.
