I know it is all about him, it's just when you see a small snippet of the old H it is so easy to be happy to see that person and get sucked in, must repeat over and over, don't get sucked in.
I had a read of the Midlife for Dummies, that made me laugh, especially the bit about clinging to the edge of bed without falling out, it is so my H for the past few months.
He must think I am really stupid or something if he thinks I believe that he knows nothing of the earrings, gee strange earrings just jumped into his pocket.
I am loving be able to come here and say whatever I need to say, I try not to say too much about H to my D as she is dealing with her own issues of disgust at her father, who appears to now be trying to be nice and lovey dovey with her, when he never has been.
Being able to vent here and know that I am interacting with people who are feeling the same things or have been there and done that and you don't feel that you are talking to people who are tired of hearing you talk about your situation.
This site has literally been my sanity saviour and I can't thank the little voice in my head that one day told me to google "divorce busting" not knowing there was an actual site and voila here I am.
I do have one question though, as he still won't give me an answer on if to rent a property that we could all live in and I am at critical point now and must secure a property if not today by no later than tomorrow. Should I go ahead and secure a larger house or assume he won't be coming with us and get a smaller property.
I would love to stay in the area where I am, but on my own could not afford it, but I will also miss my small group of friends who have been supporting me as well and that will be another heart wrenching thing to do. One more thing that H's selfish me, me, me attitude has caused.
Hope everyone has had a good day or night wherever you may be.
