Don't get too down or for too long, for a whole bunch of reasons, starting with the kids.

Don't rule out Retrovaille b/c you saw 2 steaks, or thought you did, on her grill. So what? Ask her....what have you got to lose? And Look how much power you gave the steaks on a grill image.

"Bet that means it was OM and then they had great sex and all she thought the WHOLE time was how much she hates you and how much she loves him..." NOT!! He has no job, he is a coach, not a dad, he is NOT a good catch but he pays attention to her and got her pity, and you guys have some issues in the m. FIX your part of "the issues" and don't worry so much about that guy. He's not the man she'll run off with unless I'm way way off.
If so, she's not well...he ain't a good catch and how else can I say that? He is not a famous author or Wall Street big shot, he's more or less a semi-failure right? I mean honestly...

I know it hurts badly, but you are giving THAT OM too much credit...imo.
Hang in there and don't assume so much negatively.

j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change