I know. But you can come HERE and other places where you make a difference and don't get mad at your computer screen...
Plus, you have your own family that needs and values your support as do I. And my mil is visiting in 2 weeks and I dread it AND feel guilty b/c she is dying and I'm scared she'll die while here and just with me. And frankly, the timing of the visit could not be personally/professionally worse for me. But bil needs a break and picked that week without really discussing dates and he does deserve a break and I informed h that it sucks THAT week but bil already booked a place. Yeah, it's irritating but in the grand scheme, I have to shut up. She is dying and that's the main thing; being with her and hoping she's alert enough to get something out of it and that the kids can as well. I am doubtful as her cancer is affecting her brain A LOT and I'm literally afraid of her flying even though it's direct and we'll meet her at the gate and h is a doctor, etc. She's not doing well.
So Stacy, I hear you. And I think tomato will post to k4 and other peeps new to his thread or who want to see signs in their own situations, etc. But as for his d's, that is what deeply deeply offends me. All the preaching and arguing (and persuading no one of God's love as he hurls out moral assertions re: his w's behavior...don't get me started...) ALL while ignoring or putting his d's needs on the back burner as long as possible....the hypocrisy.
Spend your money AND your time wisely.
A/K, I'll search later for you. I have to take care of d12 with a HIGH fever now. Can't seem to keep it down for long and it hit 104.8 last night, and on the digital thermometer it went over 105 but she was coherent, and funny and sacastic, etc. (Maybe that's the last thing to go). H is on call at the hospital so until he gets back I just want to get that fever down. We r not that big on ER visits as we know what they involve and she is taking fluids orally...oh well,
ttyl ladies.
Be well. j-
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