Well, WAW's seem to love keeping their spouses "hooked". So, they'll be randomly nice -- I think it's to make sure that you're still there. Still waiting, not moving on with your life.
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
Detach, detach, detach.
Stacy
AMEN....honey you are doing that thing again where you want to understand him. That's like I was when I met my first truly crazy criminal defendant. I wanted to understand him but you know what? I can't, b/c I am not crazy.
You will NOT understand him EVER. Accept this as it is key to your thriving and moving on and you are wasting time on this endeavor. Seriously. Remember that Mrs.Edwards quote about trying to get back your old life, or what you thought you had, after a big bad event?
You will NEVER be the same person again. Okay fine. You can still be happy and laugh and love. But no, you are not the woman you once were and you will never have the M you wanted to have, with your h. Whether he changes and grows and you forgive, would take years IF it's possible but even then it would not be the same and you would STILL not understand his present behavior. So it really is a waste of energy.
Stay on track. J=
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
