True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

Wow BMF and AH, Thanks for your compliments!

I appreciate you both visiting my thread. I've tried to stay strong and maintain some sense of grace, but wise? I don't know. I was a mess like everyone else in the beginning and I didn't start posting until well into the 2nd year, so by then I was doing a better job of acting rather than reacting.

I'll check out your threads and in the meantime I hope you'll keep visiting mine as it seems this D is about to happen.

Hi Karen, thank you too. My L appt. went well. He said I have 2 options. He can meet with H's L on the 24th and ask the judge for more time and another date or we can send an official proposal to his L and see what H does.

I chose to go ahead with the proposal. He should have called H's L on Friday but business tends to shut down early around here on Fridays plus his L is out on vacation next week.

Sooo, kind of anticlimatic. I expected a frantic email or call from H because he's not going to like the offer. But of course one of the most important rules here is NO EXPECTATIONS!