This whole thing is cake-eating. She gets to come over to talk and cry whenever she feels like it. She gets comfort from you when she feels like it.

'Why can't you talk to me, be friends with me, help me....yadda,yadda...ME, ME, ME......" This is simply her way of reeling you back in a little.


Hmmmm....if she hadn't left, these things wouldn't be an issue.