of course you're right. my bitterness is showing. I'm not like this most of the time, just got triggered by something you said. and then I hijacked your thread--sorry!!!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012