As john said..the hurt will continue...perhaps..it will never go away for a long time but you accept and move on. I had nightmares for a while. I had a graphic image of my wife...similar to a scene in the movie Unfaithful..many will know which one I mean. It took many months before that began to fade and hurt less. It is a ripping...a violation....

But, Kalni....you will be OK and this will move to the past. You must stay strong and above all not do anything that will hurt you or compromise your good self.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;