For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
It does seem sometimes that the world of Man rewards sin. I've actually had my xW mock and jeer me for being alone, split off from her and struggling. She said, "So how's that workin' out for ya', huh?", as if I had been the one who had wanted to end our M, split our family, lose our home, ruin our finances.
They say the best revenge is to lead a good life. But then as a Christian I need to remember that we're not to think of such things as revenge, ... but to store up our treasures in Heaven.
Love your D, HM. Take care of yourself and find the true blessings in your life. That's the best anyone can hope for.