I wonder when its the right time to say, Ok, I need you to know that I would like nothing more for things to get better between us, but I need A,B and C to change.
I understand when its time to drop the rope, but I am at a loss as to when its the right time to start things up again! Even if you let your WAS initiate, they could end up scaring themselves.
I wouldnt call her. Ill bet she takes some comfort from your phone calls, but I think that its sort of cake eating. I would tell her you know what, why dont you just call me when its a good time for you.
I like your thoughts I think I might just do that!
I was wondering if I should pull away alittle again. not going cold but perhaps just dont get close as we have been for a few of our next meetings. try and get her to want to initiate it more.
I think I might just do that!
