Wow - I'm impressed -- you're getting it. No small thing, since some NEVER do (thinking Kevin, here).
Please don't waste even one second of your precious time trying to understand what your H (who seems to have the emotional maturity of a 14 year old boy - seriously) means when he makes some offhand comment about you looking hot. I'm sure you did look hot - and he's 14, and says it. That's it -- you're dealing with a kid.
And thanks for the "help" w/Kevin -- he's exhausting, and I'm about done over there. Glad to see 25 back here -- I know that makes you feel better.
