Ahh Oz - going to think long about this before (or if) I reply.

Just as a thought for both of us ....

Hearts Blessing posted "the six stages of MLC" ...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=97846&page=1

I'm trying do decide if the W is in stage 4 and moving into 5.

I hope snodderly or someone with some experience with this can help.

It's a very powerful thread with a great deal of insight.

And now - shower - been very lazy. Tidy up. And wait for the guys to arrive this PM.

(((((Oz))))) and GET SOME SLEEP!

Mac