Has anyone seen my get-up-and-go?

[Silent Chrleader]

That's wonderful that your H's family is still that way! My H's family has been supportive of me too, but that is not to say they are "on my side". They love H, and just want him to be happy (as do I) and they want the same for me. Because my brother and H's brother were best friends in High school, I have a long history with this people and I will always consider them family, and I am glad they seem to feel the same with me.

On the other side of the coin, my family has also not ostracized H, and H has continued to be connected with them. My step-dad works for H, and now H has offered by brother a job. Also, there have been occaisions where H will still call my Mom to ask for this or that errand. I have in the past truth to tell has some resentful feelings about this. Sorta wanted them to just tell him he was an a**hole for hurting me so. But, now I am really thankful for the continued support our respective families have given both of us.

Take care, ((((((Dawn))))))