I wonder when its the right time to say, Ok, I need you to know that I would like nothing more for things to get better between us, but I need A,B and C to change.

I understand when its time to drop the rope, but I am at a loss as to when its the right time to start things up again! Even if you let your WAS initiate, they could end up scaring themselves.

I wouldnt call her. Ill bet she takes some comfort from your phone calls, but I think that its sort of cake eating. I would tell her you know what, why dont you just call me when its a good time for you.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...