Anyone have any advice on trying to figure out some 180s? I feel like I'm "dead in the water" with our marriage. The only time we talk is for 5 minutes at drop off, or if he's angry and wants to pick a fight with me.


Me 39, H 41
M 17, T 21
Son, 4
Bomb 2.09, Two EAs
Separated 8.4.09
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