I don't know. xH is thriving--this hasn't hurt his career, his financial status or his relationships with friends and family. D13 reports he is quite happy. For now, anyway, it doesn't seem to be hurting him at all (meanwhile D and I are struggling!) I trust that eventually it will catch up with him--but I gave up on karma awhile back.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012