Wow, that's harsh. That's worse than my getting the bomb just two days before Father's Day. But such words as these WAS come up with are just excuses for proceeding with what they were going to do anyway.
yeah--it was also a couple of days before our anniversary and a couple of days after I found out I'd be losing my job. He'd been trying to pick a fight for weeks and I finally took the bait--and he used it as an excuse to launch into the bomb. But I also have little doubt that he timed it for maximum damage as well--and then blamed it on me. Still does, as a matter of fact, almost a year and a half later. Makes you wonder if they'll continue the self-deceit forever.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012