Charlyne (from Charlyne Cares) refers to it as "zip the lips." I do a lot of that...it's a wonder I actually have a tongue left instead of just a bloody stump. Ugh...not a nice image! But I do think it helps to be very careful about what we say.
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1