I get the desire to strike back. Part of me wishes I had made the call to get my H fired from his job for sleeping with a lower-level coworker after being warned to stay away from each other (see? even the boss at his work new something was up even though he denied it)...part of me still wants to call his two best cattle partners, they would pull so far away from him if they new and his dream would be gone...
I haven't done it yet just because he is my kids' dad. But I understand you wanting to hurt him.
