I would appreciate if you checked out my thread because it sounds painfully similar to mine, minus the kid involved (we just have the furry variety). He was engaging in emotional affairs with other woman, while I was always depressed, not fun and yelling. I have been working on changing that for the last year, but the one thing he says I still do way too much of is questioning and pressuring him. He says that the more I "push", the further away he goes. I really need help on not engaging that. He also says he only sees the "broken down" me. That's because when I see him, I get upset and cry because I wish we could just be ok. I love him so much. Obviously, I know what I have to do, I just don't know HOW to do it.
