Are you going to see the results of the mental evaluation? Or will it just be mentioned in the trial? It is curious that the doc mentioned needing more time to go over your background info/evidence that you submitted. Im glad that you had the resources to make that happen.
Regardless of why its happening (as long as you dont let your guard down), I think that you deserve a break from the craziness and abuse of your W, so Im really glad that things are settling down.
I imagine I will be able to view the report. I've had wide latitude of access to everything in this trial thus far as I've expressed a keen understanding of the issues involved.
W is still continuing her A, although right now it is less physical than she'd want it to be I'm sure because MIL has clamped down on letting her get out of the house. I'd imagine she is waiting on the D to be final before continuing it openly which is fine.
I'm definitely not letting my guard down. The SSRI I'm on has helped me to relax a bit more, and I'm not so concerned about what does and doesn't happen as much.
Today I had D1, and went with her and the boys to the mall and ate chicken, then went and saw a couple of friends at the mall. Then took them to a book store and had fun there. I'll get her tomorrow as well which is good.
W/MIL came early today, and MIL looked more "nervous" than usual but W was quite calm and making small talk. She is being "friendly" still which is a joke in some respects because she is tearing apart our marriage, costing thousands of dollars in legal fees, etc. just because she wanted to have an A and make false accusations to cover it up.
I'm just taking these interactions for what they are... controlled and isolated... they believe they are being recorded (and they are) and are putting on a good show. This is fine.
Tomorrow is a new day and I'll see how she reacts or doesn't react. We shall see.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
