DID XH M OW or not??

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Cage
thanks for posting
My kids are 8 and 14
my 8 year old has severe allergies
yesterday xh took them for the day
s8 came home wheezing bad and needed many medications to prevent allergic reaction
he is allergic to Wheat
left to xh alone, im not sure he or OW could handle this
he doesnt get many reactions, but I have dealt with them since he was a baby and I know how to handle it
with no medicine s8 could wind upo in severe reapiratory distress and ER
Snodderly
thanks for visiting
I know I have to let him go
and yes in a way IM glad xh has someone to take care of him
or sometimes I think OW is the reason for his downfall

I found this out today:
XH is taking several mediacations now
he was a recovering alcolholic and was sober 20 years
I never saw him drink or take drugs
He is in full blown relapse
I called the pharmacist and she agreed NO ONE shoulf be taken the combinations off drugs that he is on
that explains the sedation and explosions
in recovery world of 12 step programs
this is a full blown relapse
MLC or not
xh will have to one day get himself clean again
I do not know if he has it in him
many addicts will necver get clean once
let alone twice
so
I have this problem, now with the sleepovers
I am very skeptical t this poihnt knowing xh is so sedated and drugged
I do not know OW or anything of her except she is 28, D, and maybe has a 11 year old s or D
so I obvouiouly cant trust her to watch kids
my son is healthy but given the wrong food with his allergies, he could get very sick or worse
I think I will have to tell xh I made a mistake
and I think the kids need to comtinue sleeping here for a bit but he could feel free to take them to his apartment for the day and have them home by 9pm
and soon we can do sleepovers
IN relapse/addiction
confrontations of xh drug use will not work
as he is not ready to get clean or he would any suggestions appreciated
peace