thanks guys....kevin, i understand where u are coming from, but keep in mind, my life has been in limbo for 3 years! i truly believe i have had enough!!! its time to move on.
its not say that if h showed up graveling and wanted to prove to me he can be the husband for me, that i wouldnt consider it, but it isnt happening and i done waiting!
got a copy of the letter today that my lawyer sent to his lawyer. its informing them of the new law effective sept 1 that automatically restrains assets of divorces pending. it also tells his lawyer of h's continued lack of support for myself and my son while somehow paying for his own expenses including his porsche. it informs them to expect the pendente lite.
im so proud of myself, u have no idea!
just wait to h gets wind of this and combine it with when he goes to get his things and sees i sold all of our appliances!
im glad i finally reached the point where i could proceed and protect myself without worrying about his reaction.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09