I thought I would drop by and give an update even though not much has changed, lol.
I did sell the house, I will be moving to a rental in a couple of weeks and stay there on a month by month lease until the right house in my price range comes along.
I also go back to school at the end of August.
Busy, busy, busy.
Things with ex are still the same and I don't ever expect them to change. I'm ok with it, exceptance is a wonderful thing.
I no longer have any desire to have another relationship with him again. I have moved on with my life. No, I am not in another relationship, I have just moved on.
Ex is still the same person he was 3 years ago when he left.
He will be difficult to deal with from here on in. He is not one of those that will grow up. But I'm ok with it, really.
Interesting story I would like to share....Ex kept pushing and pushing me to sell the house since the day he walked out the door. We listed it with his realtor for the first 6 months and it diid not sell. I put my foot down and wouldn't resign another contract with her, time for someone new.
We got a new realtor and ex wanted to list the house at a real low price but I wouldn't budge. It turns out I was right because we ended up getting more for the house then he wanted to list it for.
You would think he would be excited, right? Well it didn't take long for our realtor to find out just how nuts he really is. After we got our offer he says to my realtor that maybe we should take it back off the market and wait for the market to pick back up. He wanted to sell it for less!
I told her "no, I want it sold. As much as I love my house and my neighborhood, I want off this rollercoaster. I no longer care to ride it and I don't care to own anything with him anymore". One moment the guy wants it sold badly the next he wants to wait, I'm not interested in playing his game.
He also put up other roadblocks with selling the house. We had to fix things that were on the buyer's inspectors list. Not big things, but things that must be done. Well he refused to help me out with these things. If it was not for me they would not get done.
My realtor couldn't believe how difficult he was being.
She asked me if he was on medication, lol!
She said he is definetly bipolar. She's too funny.
She figured I would be the difficult one to work with as I didn't want to sell the house and he did but she told me it was the complete opposite.
The man is nuts.
I gotta go for now as some friends just came over. I will try and post more later.
