I'm doing my best to keep my mouth shut, a real 180 for me, I'm a get it all out there girl and then move on whilst my H brews a problem for ages and finally explodes and it takes ages for him to get over it.
H took D to the wedding in my car which was odd as he's never shown any interest in driving it before (got it after he left) and also helped load up van for the the other D. Quite a good few hours actually saw him smile, a first for several months. Feeling positive about all this especially since last time we spoke he shouted at me down the phone that I was keeping the kids away from him (I'm not that's his spin on it). And eye contact!!! he's avoided that since I found out about OW. So all good.
It's not exactly a baby step but it's a positive.
I will email a thank you next week and take it from there. My goal is to get an email correspondence going as that's non threatening and is to his work so he can choose not to tell OW if he so wishes.
