That is precisely what I have begun doing however....
Is there any appropriate action that she would take that would warrant a reaction from me? otherwise it sounds like you are advising divorce. Do you know what I mean? _________________________
We cross-posted. Sorry for any confusion.
I think you should stay dark until she stops blaming you and trying to justify her own sh!tty behavior.
When, and she WILL contact you at some point, she reaches out, don't respond until you come here first. There are great people here who can advise on how to respond.
Plus, when you do decide to respond, make it very short and unemotional. "Yes", "No", "Ok" are all good. Do not explain yourself to her! Do not think of bogus excuses to contact her. Just don't contact her first at all.
Do not tell her you miss her. Do not tell her you are sorry. How many more times does she need to hear that? And how much has it really helped?
