Thank you and I agree. It has been a long time.

So any ideas on me?

I was a sort of I don't know promiscuous young man up until about a year before I met her. It is easy for me. I Never have to really put any effort into it. I decided though that that sort of junkfood sex was full of empty emotional calories so I stopped allowing myself to be in those situations.

I have a somewhat charismatic presence and am seen in crowds as very self assured and in charge. The big exception though has been my W.

I fell prey to my old weakness after not even being interested in other women for nearly a year.

This is a tough row to hoe here. I know what I want in the long run but there is a lot of junkfood out there.

Also, I still really want an answer to what would be an appropriate action on W's part for me to react to?


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Me 36
W 28
Married 02
Separated 9/08