Doing good.

Today W called me and told me she got her vehicle. She was very excited about it. She emailed me pictures of it and we had a good conversation about that and the kids and other things. Good phone call and good emails.

She even suggested if we get out of church early enough tomorrow that she might be interested in going to lunch with us before we go school clothes shopping. She also said she wanted to tell me about the Dallas Cowboys discount party stand thing they have going since she thought I would be interested in that. I told her ya, that is what me and my dad are going to do this coming Friday. She said her and her friends might go do that sometime soon also. We talked about me and D7 doing our barbq and she said she hopes we enjoy that.

This tells me one thing. She still thinks about me. I didn't think she did. But she does. She still tries to think about things she knows I would enjoy and tell me about them.

I kept positive the entire time in both conversations. I told her I was proud of her for taking care of herself with the vehicle and getting a good deal.

I have subscribed to the "Zip your lips" from rejoice ministries. All in all it went really well considering how bad last weekend went with my screwing up and all.

D7 and I are going to barbq today. We went for a bit of a nature hike this morning and are going to go swimming later on together. I am going to pick up D11 tonight when she gets back in town.

Praise God. He is working on things as long as I work on things. I think I did well in both of my conversations with her. I didn't stick my foot in my mouth at all. And tomorrow I will have another opportunity to shine. True that she is still talking about trips with just her and the girls and my dog. But that is ok. Baby steps. I'm looking into things also for me and the girls. The good thing is that she hasn't let last weekend make her completely pull away from talking to me. What a blessing.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...