Sue, we all know how hard you fought to keep your M. But you can't do it completely by yourself forever.
It is a process. It took me a while to get here too, slowly, slowly detaching. Everyone has different time tables for what they can handle.
I think most of us here, including you, really value marriage and don't mind putting in the hard work. That's something you should be really proud of!!! And you do deserve to have someone that will treat you like you should be treated--like the beautiful, wonderful woman you are!!! Karen
