See, here comes the pain..... Knew it would right? How you shoulder that pain is what matters now.

Do not allow his deceit to change who you are. Thats kind of like admitting that you worked so fricken hard just for him.....blechhhhhhh....

You don't need to put one moments effort into hurting him. Just the fact that you now know everything is good. As you look and speak to him with disdain and disgust, he will feel his own hurt just in knowing what he turned into and how amazing you are to not blast him, only to look at him with that look telling him he does not deserve you.

When affected by evil K, you have the choice to either strike back in anger, or show that faith and integrity are what separate the 2 of you and what make you a better human being.

I am glad that your sis is ok and did not lose the finger. Next time let her tell him to F off instead of you.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09