back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

W wants to tell kids about us gettting a divorce. Wanted to share with me as she doesn't know exactly what to say to them. Says D has to happen as we will only have a mediocre life. We didn't do the things we wanted like a patio or new kitchen etc. She is waiting for me to get there where I know what we have is not worth it. Wants to be best friends as I will be in her and her in mine for the rest of our lives. She is certain that our marriage is done.

Says she doesn't k ow what to do to try and get her feelings back for me. Says she has been this was for a year. Doesn't want to force her self to believe she is in love with me. Says there is nothing for her in our area as a single mom so if I have to relocate for a job she is ok with that. Wants to be bff but doesn't want to give me false hope that we would be getting back together. Like hugs and kisses. Just BFF s.

So what a good double whammy for the kids.... Mom an dad are getting divorced and we are moving 900 mile further from family and all your friends.