Actually Gucci, I'm doing pretty good with all that. I usually don't comment on the kid stuff. Only time I really lost it was when he had the kids out so late that S6 was a raving miserable lunatic with me and I let H know that if he is going to keep him out that late he will have to keep him the next day because I can't handle him in that state. But after that convo, I realized that I am just going to have to deal with what I get.
The problem with communication is that we are dealing with so many logistics and money issues right now and that is a perpetual minefield.
I have handled the other woman thing really well. I have made peace with it.
I do want to say that right now thriving without him is my MO. How the hell I could ever trust him or be reconciled with him eludes me. So, my actions need to lead to more sanity and stability for me and my kids and if I have the upper hand with him, great, I can decide at that point but really, I've lost all respect for him at this point.
I want to get your input on a couple specific things. But I have to run.
