I'm not really interested if she is cheating or not - I know her behaivour is disrespectful & irrational & I don't believe anyone should have to put up with this.
She is lying & she is completely gone from me atm. I doubt that anyone can respect someone who behaves in the fashion that she has been.
I am actually feeling pretty good. This is in someways a new start for me. I'm sure it will be tough over the next couple of months but it will get better.
Again my main concern is the children - I wish she would just leave them alone. That might sound wrong but she doesn't really care for them - she is only focussed on herself at this point in time.
That is as script as it gets bro.....
Selfishness, Lying, Whatever else is going on as well....
This IS a new start for you...Don't forget that man....
Once again, I find myself saying that this is like a two-for-one special at the market....
Your spouse has issues and is pulling away to find herself and deal with them....BUT.....
SO DO YOU.....YOU get to have space and time to really look and evaluate yourself without the constraints of a relationship...
We also get to do this with a clear head and our morals intact too....NOT this irrational thing we call MLC...
IRMAC....I agree with you, and giving this mess to God is really the way for us.....
Yes, God will have things the way they are meant to be.
I also believe that God doesn't really get too involved with affairs of the heart...
What he does do for us is gives us morals, and a conscience to police ourselves...
He will guide us, but in the end, WE still have to do the footwork for ourselves....
And I do have faith that he is working on our wayward spouses at the same time....
