I'm not really interested if she is cheating or not - I know her behaivour is disrespectful & irrational & I don't believe anyone should have to put up with this.
She is lying & she is completely gone from me atm. I doubt that anyone can respect someone who behaves in the fashion that she has been.
I am actually feeling pretty good. This is in someways a new start for me. I'm sure it will be tough over the next couple of months but it will get better.
Again my main concern is the children - I wish she would just leave them alone. That might sound wrong but she doesn't really care for them - she is only focussed on herself at this point in time.