I have been reading most of the posts in here, and noticed only one person mention this name.....God....I have been here over 2 yrs. and let me tell you in those 2 yrs I came from a bitter,unforgiving,put the blame all on the o/w,crying while I posted in here,hopelessness,depression,low self esteem, and the list could go on and on. All I can tell you as one poster told you and that was let God take control of this. When I accepted the fact that no matter what I did my husband was not going to come back,the man he has become right now I dont like very much,selfish,uncaring (at least for his real family that love him unconditionally)a liar,when he speaks now it is like a child, they say they go back in time and I beleive that does happen, he makes me feel like I was with my mom when ever I was caught doing something wrong,I always felt I had to explain whatever it was that I was doing wrong,I know this MLC is real they have been taken captive by the enemy and it is our jobs to get on our knees and pray. I dont want to preach to anyone I just want to share THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN MAKE IT OUT OF THIS IN ONE PIECE is take it to the Lord...IT WORKS .I pray I did not offend anyone but this is an open forum and I am posting what I have learned while on this journey...Be blessed in Jesus name...
