Not saying be a doormat, but understand this illness that is called MLC...
These are things that everyone of us here has experienced at some point....
Look Steve, Only you know what you can endure and not endure..
Let me reiterate that this site, although called Divorce Busting, isn't really about saving your marriage. It is about saving Steve first, and then, by happenstance your marriage is able to be re-born, then so be it....
You will not be considered a success or a failure by the outcome of your marriage...
So, with that in mind, DB for the correct reasons, and regardless the outcome of your relationship, you will always be a success.
Assumptions can kill you, with MLC, I ALWAYS assume script. And with that I know, unless proven wrong.....
MLC'ers lie...
MLC'ers cheat....
Save that sting and downward spiral by snooping...
If she is or isn't....doesn't mean a dam thing to the path that YOU have to walk.....
If you HAVE to know for you ? Then do what you have to do....
