At this point I don't really care if there is an OM involved. She is disrespecting me to a huge degree. Her behaivour is erratic and abnormal.
She is lying, exxagerating and accusing me of BS.
The kids realise she has lost it and I've had enougth.
Counselling is this week and I think I'll be dropping a few bombs of my own. All I have to do is state her behaivour and that ends it right there.
I know this site is about trying to reconcile and there is still that possibility but atm I'm angry. She won't see that as I've switched off but she has lost basically all the respect I ever had for her.