Julia- thanks!

Al and T- interesting..... do you both agree on the H approach, or on CEO?

In relation to H, I'd say that I don't need to ask him anything because I don't think he'll have any answers. It seems to me from reading all the posts from formers WAHs that they didn't really know what they were doing after they left. I think my H will be the same. Besides which, I don't really care what he was thinking. Sometimes you just have to let go. I posted about H on my thread as somewhere to mention being sad about my D. Whatever H says about his behaviour I'll still be sad about getting a D, because who ever wants to have to do that?

CEO..... interesting most of all. I wonder if you guys missed this post from page 2 of my thread....

Originally Posted By: OD
CEO told me today that he was talking to his Mum about me at the weekend. He was apparently discussing my relationship with my brothers and Dad with her. Maybe I'd have been surprised by that, but I wasn't since we're going on the same holiday and I guess he probably mentioned me being there in passing and that they followed the conversation up.

BTW, he didn't kiss my foot- it was his bohemian art gallery owning friend who did that. And the conversation about asking women out was actually started by him because we were talking about whether I'd made anyone cry by refusing a date with them (no), so I returned the question. he then came back with a long -mail about how he hates the humiliation of someone saying no to him.

I can see that I need to take a stronger lead and I accept that. I think it'll be easier to do it in a sun, sea and yoga situation than in the office- watch this space!

L. xx