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I wonder if people who run away from their problems ever hook up with another that does the same? Who would be the WAS then? LOL


I have pondered this as well. The guy she is seeing right now is seperated. In which case I wonder if he left his wife or she left him, or if it was mutual.

Don't know how many divorce mutually, but if she left him then how could he feel good about dating another woman who just left her husband?

If he left his wife, then W is taking a huge chance that if he feels unhappy that he will leave W also.

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Always be a father your D can feel comfortable talking to & telling her problems to.

Thanks for the words about fatherhood and the important role a father can play in a daughters life. I strive to make up for the things she doesnt get from her mother ( interaction, warmth)but you ggave me more to consider.

I think I will move on over to Surviving the Big D forum, bc I am in the wrong section now for my sitch. Hope to see you there msm.

Last edited by native; 08/15/09 07:12 AM.

Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09