I`ve been thinking about this mystery thing since.
I think you mentioned some time ago that your H encouraged your EA(forgive me if I`m confusing you with someone else though!)
It struck me because recently-maybe three weeks ago-my H told me to go on ahead and have an affair. I think his reasoning there is that he wouldn`t feel guilty about his A if I had one too. and could also blame me for destroying the M.
I think he`s already mystified by the changes in me. I don`t get mad and confrontational like I used to. I`m calm. He can`t find a button to push anywhere.
I`m looking good(hey, congrats you on your amazing weightloss!) I`m doing lots of 180s.
Maybe all that`s just fuel to his fire. And maybe its enough mystery for now!
